A woman who lives confidently through life, commands respect, and has tapped into her true feminine. That’s what I call a dangerous woman. Once you embody and conquer these five attributes, you too can step into this power.
Attribute 1: Knowledge is power.
Many easily recognize that money is a form of power, but many forget. So is knowledge. Even if a fool was rich, he would quickly lose all of his wealth. You have to understand that knowledge is your best asset and the most important subject to study is yourself.
Who are you? What are your likes? Dislikes? Your advantages. Disadvantages?
At this moment, you have to take a long, hard look at yourself in the mirror , and no this isn’t one of those go lucky affirmation moments. This is you removing your mask and coming face to face to who you truly are and getting past your ego.
You may find you don’t always like with staring back at you. Are you fat, lazy, undisciplined, insecure? Selfish? Let’s be honest here. This allows you to clearly see your faults, and from there you can decide when and how to work on them.
And I’m not just talking about the negatives. Tampoco es un pity party. But as well. Realistically, what do you have working in your favor? Are you hot, artistic, Smart, charismatic, determined, goal-oriented.
This step is detrimental. Why? Because when you know who you truly are, no one can tell you who you are.
Your whole life, people will try to tell you who you are, who to be. And there’s various reasons to put you in a box, to put you down. To control your narrative.
Do you think Naomi Campbell went home and cried when they told her she was a stuck up bitch ? No. She smiled and said, oh, and I’m always late to.
When you know yourself, you’re able to look at them in the eyes and say, yes and , tell me something I don’t know.
Another way to cultivate your knowledge is to become multifaceted. Thee. Elle . Woods. would have never been an icon if she was just a pretty face. She was aspirational, someone you didn’t want to mess with because she had more than just what meets the eye. Juggling beauty and brains. You could no longer put her into a box by picking up multiple skills, traits, and assets. She made her own lane. Something you can’t duplicate, imitate, or replace.
What kind of limitations can you put on a woman like that? Another great example is Zendaya A great actor dancer model with a great head on her shoulders, a quadruple threat showing great versatility. Have you seen someone try to come for her yet? No. And you can easily see why in this day and age, you have knowledge at your fingertips, so there is no excuse.
Hello YouTube University, Skillshare, Barnes and Noble, your local library. Pick up knowledge on philosophy, biology, body language, personality types, agriculture skills like makeup, gardening, marketing, you name it.
But let me tell you, one of the most important things to learn is alchemy. This is the literal and metaphysical science of transmuting invaluable situations into more profitable ones. This could be a heartbreak, a rumor, or a setback and flipping it into something you can monetize, capitalize, and profit from a common example of this is the pain of a heartbreak and transmuting it into a transformational gym session, or even owning a mishap or rumor.
These women are iconic, as Shakira said, Las mujeres Ya no lloran ellas Facturan. A woman like that, is not afraid to lose because her and God himself always make the profit greater, playing on the same principle. They say what you give comes back to you threefold. And I actually tested this theory.
If you guys want to hear it, I can do a story time explaining how I tripled my income and one night at work. It’s a pretty good story. So. And a dangerous woman is fully aware of this capability. If you are in tune with your higher self, with God, and you actually put to test these laws of the universe, these laws of nature, you might be surprised.
Okay, so last note about knowledge is a woman that truly understands that knowledge is power. Also understands that she can’t easily give her power away because you don’t quite know who will use said power against you.
And it’s obvious to say, don’t show all your cards, your insecurities, or out your dirty laundry. But an advanced enemy will use even your achievements, strengths and gifts, your wants and desires to their advantage and to your demise.
Now, don’t laugh at my examples because they’re valid. But we can see this in coralline. The other mother plays upon Coraline’s heart’s desire. Or the mother from tangled. She limits Rapunzel’s knowledge of the world to keep her captive, to keep her in her control, all while profiting from her gift of healing.
Or even Ursula taking Ariel’s gift and promising she will get Erik only to fast forward to the end and come to find out, her plan was to use Ariel’s own plan and gift against her to steal Erik literally tried to Destiny swap if you didn’t catch that.
But if you notice, in all three cases, these events could have been avoided if they didn’t have access to certain knowledge. they were trying to tell y’all, Having people in your business only gives them the upper hand. Learn to move and silence.
Attribute 2 : Pick and choose your battles.
Not every argument, confrontation, or decision needs to be made or won by you. Your goal is to win the war. Not every battle. Not every event requires your energy.
Second point In knowing how to pick and choose your battles is sometimes it’s a person’s plan to trigger you. A person will sometimes stir something up an argument out of the smallest thing, or even if there is a debate. Suddenly they bring up subjects that had nothing to do with the original issue at hand.
Therefore, creating an argument and situation that you realize is totally uncalled for. And this is usually done around others and mutuals. The goal is to trigger you into a negative reaction in front of others, because they know this reaction would be unfortunate to you, your image, your relationships, and or your career.
This was a great, clear example. Let’s just say you weren’t aware of this power trip and do have a negative reaction. Like porsha did. the people around won’t notice the aggressors intentions. They will only see how disrespectful, childish and toxic your reaction was, allowing the aggressor to say wow, look her true colors. Knowing full well, they pushed you into it.
We can clearly see Kenya’s goal was to kick Porsha off the show, and we can see Porsha’s immediate regret of her actions. If she was aware of this attribute. She would have fell for the gimmick. Pick and choose your battles.
If you put your foot down for every little thing that comes up, when it comes time to actually stand up, your actions are no longer taken seriously. It will become, oh, she just pops off cries and rebuttals for everything.
When you feel like you always have to win it shows a huge weakness. It shows that your pride could easily be attacked even if you are in the correct. You come of as someone who thinks they can’t possibly be wrong, has a fragile ego and someone that wants everything to go their way.
Sit this one out. Let them have the final say or let your partner choose the decoration for once. A dangerous woman simply knows, the truth… Is not swayed by the opinions of others. It remains true. What’s done in the dark will always come to the light.
At this point, you have already let them have their way. There is no longer any room for mercy. When you learn the art of war, you learn the art of timing. You may have lost the battle, but you have won the war.
And the foolish and guilty can only keep up an act for so long. Anything of value withstands the test of time. So when it comes time to stand up for yourself, to pull out the receipts and to let the truth be known, they will know you mean business.
Attribute 3 : Stay ready so you never have to get ready.
In this rap, Nicki tells us of how an op thought she caught her lacking, only to find out she was fully prepared. You don’t want to be caught slipping unprepared or behind. This could be detrimental to your safety, career advancement, or even social life.
Imagine you’re at home and you get a call for a pop up event, or someone is stopping by, or you even get a random video call from your boss. Now you’re scrambling. Hair a mess, face unfixed, room a mess.
That’s a woman who is unprepared, running late, and unreliable. You have to remember someone who is right on time is only one step from falling behind. You need to take your extra time and pour back into yourself. Have your outfit planned. A bullet in the chamber. Always 1 or 2 steps ahead.
Unstoppable is someone who can be put on the spot and still hold it down, because certain opportunities come once in a lifetime. And if you’re not prepared, it’ll pass you right on up.
Attribute 4 . Don’t be afraid to kill a !@#$%
Sometimes the biggest enemy on your roster is yourself . that lazy, fat, unsociable, predictable, needy. Pick me. You need to learn when to pick up a knife and stab a hoe Kill literally and metaphorically that old version of you. Bury that hoe. And don’t you dare let her rest in peace.
She needs to be turning in the grave. Just from the mere fact, You’re stunting and standing on business. literally and metaphorically dancing on her grave.
And this applies to many things. Those habits gone. Those clothes. Garbage. That’s what the boring, lazy version of you wore. And why would you want to cosplay as her?
You have to get rid of the old to make room for the new. Not only does that apply to yourself, but others as well. The people that talk down on you to others. The spouse that offers no support. They are like dead. Split ends. And we all know with those around. Any growth will be lost to the damage they cause.
So do yourself a favor and cut them off. A woman that’s willing to walk away and not take any shit not even from herself, commands respect from a life itself.
Attribute 5. Become your greatest muse.
Watch and study classic film. Pick up a great work of literature. Discover the multiple interpretations of a piece of art. What this does is fine tune your gustos and creates a lust for life. like a child, Somehow the things you observe leak into parts of you.
Many of the greats know , this Much of the HER that they show, is lovingly created, and the way you show up begins to change. Slowly, you begin to see art in the mundane. Food doesn’t just become consumable, but planned nutritionally, bursting with flavors. The plate becomes a canvas.
Sex becomes more than a one night stand. You make love, leaving them wanting more. It’s no longer fast fashion. Your style becomes a reflection of you and essentially you become your greatest muse.
The way you walk, , chew , speak becomes a work of art, and a true artist knows the magic is not in the final product, but in the process itself. Knowing is not what you do, but how you do it.
Because the true masterpiece is not just the piece of art, but the essence of the depth of the dangerous woman within.
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